Personal Life
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Geezer Gamer Visits Galaxy’s Edge
So I have continued down the Geezer Gamer path and this site will probably be ending soon. In the meantime, here is my latest video, a review of Star Wars Galaxy’s Edge. Please check it out and subscribe so you can keep up with me there. Other places to find me once this goes dark are the following:
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I want to thank everyone who has ever come to this blog for anything. I appreciate what you allowed me to do earlier in my career. This blog helped me get writing gigs, other jobs, and an insane amount of life long friendships. It wouldn’t have happened without the readers. I know there are so many less nowadays as our communities have gone their separate ways, but I hope to see you again on the other side. Be well!
What I’ve been up to…
Never too late to be who you really are...
Hello all, not sure how long the blog will continue to exist in this form. I’ve started the new venture ‘The Geezer Gamer’ and you can find me streaming on Twitch and YouTube and posting videos over on YouTube as well. Hope some of you that are still connected to my RSS feed will come by and take a look. As they say, LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE 🙂
Three Decades
Here's to 30 more...
This past week, my wife and I celebrated a significant milestone. We passed our 30 year wedding anniversary.
We’ve been together for over three decades, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Now we both agree that 26 of those years were great, while 4 of them weren’t so fantastic. Our first two years were rough, and then we feel the pandemic kinda robbed us of two more years. But hey, 87% is an A- in our book, and we’ll take it.
Now why wouldn’t I change anything if four of the years kinda sucked? Well, those years made us who we are. We learned to fight through adversity and to really have each other’s back. We learned how to communicate, and how to work through disagreements, and how to be there for each other when things were truly grim.
However much those four years strained things, they helped build us into something stronger. They built us into what we have now, which I dearly love.
There is no other person in this universe that I would rather sit on the deck having coffee with, or share a meal with at a busy Vegas cafe, or complain about the state of the world with as we watch our favorite talking heads.
Thank you Jen, for being my human and for putting up with my shit. I can’t imagine where life would be without you. Let’s make the next 30 even more memorable. Love you always.
Glad The Blog is Still Here
Your dark’s too vivid, the light’s not there
My last post went up Dec. 10th but I had written it immediately after the election. The problem was, when I went to post it, I found that my website had been infected with malware. The infection took out several of my personal sites as well as one of my friend’s business sites which I maintain for him. So everything went dark for a bit.
It took several weeks of back and forth with my hosting provider (whom I’ve been with for over two decades) as well as some paid professional services to get everything cleaned up. Due to how things got infected and cleaned, my provider couldn’t figure out how the malware/hackers got in. It took quite a bit to get things all sorted, and the infection popped up a couple more times before we finally seemed to have it under control.
During that downtime, I faced the realization that I might lose two decades of posts here. Part of it was fairly liberating to be honest. But the other, more nagging part, was that I was going to miss all of that history. In addition, I would miss writing here, especially during the next four years.
No, I don’t plan on writing a bunch of political stuff (although it may happen from time to time) but rather I want to lean into art. I restarted my Flickr account, and have started to post on Bluesky. I plan on focusing quite a bit on photography, videography and other creative endeavors.
I have to admit this is all me trying to distract myself from the abject horrors that are sure to surface under the new regime. The last term almost broke me, so I’m going to go to try to insulate myself a bit better this time. Art, writing, and learning new technology will fuel me. I hope you can find the things you need to help you as well. Be kind to each other.
And today’s title is from Two Faced by Linkin Park, one of my albums of the year. My music post will get here soon but the line “your dark’s too vivid, the light’s not there” was a really powerful turn of phrase for me. Vivid darkness is a kick ass concept. Thanks LP.
Park Avenue leads to Skid Row
We are the Youth (?) Gone Wild
Once again, it’s been a bit. Not sure if I can still call this a blog if I’m only posting a couple of times a year. But hey, I felt like writing, so here we are.
It’s been a good year so far. Went on my first cruise and loved it, had a nice Vegas trip, made it to a quick family reunion, and also got to see a pretty amazing concert.
One of my longtime favorite bands is Skid Row. Recently their lead singer had to quit the band due to his health. The band had four dates booked that they had to fulfill, so they needed someone to fill in on lead vocals. I don’t think they could have found anyone better for the role than one Lzzy Hale of Halestorm.
It was at a ballroom in a small casino in Riverside, Iowa. I made the trip with a couple of my good friends and got to enjoy one hell of a concert. If you want to see how insane Lzzy is, and how good she sounds as the voice of Skid Row, check out one of my favorite Skid Row songs of all time, Quicksand Jesus.
After the pandemic, I had convinced myself that I didn’t need to see live music. I was wrong.
Speaking of the pandemic, after that Vegas trip, we caught COVID for the second time. It was worse this time around and it was a pretty miserable couple of weeks isolating. Hopefully this means I am good for awhile.
As for here, I have some ideas of things I want to discuss. I look forward to getting the creative juices flowing again. For now, I’ll just get back to listening to the new Bring Me The Horizon album non-stop. You should probably do that too.
Hello There Stranger
Or holy crap, how has it been a whole year?
I’ve sat down to write numerous times this past year, and just never felt like finishing anything. I just wasn’t mentally into documenting the crap I was going through. I won’t touch on it too much other than I’m happy 2023 is about done.
I will mention that nearly two and half years after we went into lockdowns and I started writing my COVID Diaries, my wife, youngest daughter, and I finally caught COVID. It hit us around the fourth of July holiday so we were stuck at home, and I was hit pretty hard. I can only imagine how bad it would have been had I not been immunized. But it was inevitable, and now that’s something else checked off the list. I just got my most recent booster, so hopefully I can avoid a winter strain.
The world is currently in chaos. We are around two years since Russia invaded Ukraine and there is no end in sight to that conflict. And now, Israel is trying to eradicate Hamas after its terrorist attack over a month ago. There are hate crimes rising against Jews and Muslims around the world. It’s like a holiday for racist white people. It just sucks, because I don’t want innocent people to die on either side. I’m against violence of any kind, especially when attacks have a blatant disregard for innocent life. There has been a recent pause in fighting while hostages have been traded. Hopefully that is a sign there can be some negotiation, even though the cease fires just ended.
So the world is a powder keg and there is a possible super volcano ready to erupt in Iceland. Yes, seriously. So we have that going for us.
One thing I wanted to touch on is that I lost one of my childhood best friends this past year to a heart attack. He was two years younger than myself, and in much better shape. It really hammered home how fragile life is and how quickly things can change. I hadn’t spoken to him in years, but we were inseparable during the summer months. Playing baseball, basketball and golf while riding around on our mopeds… It was a shock to my system at a time where I was very low myself. In fact, a couple week prior I had gone to the hospital thinking I was having a heart attack, only to find out it was anxiety.
To recover from my episode to hear my old friend had died was fairly devastating, but it gave me a renewed sense of wanting to be healthier.
I finally got tests done at the doctor that showed I had been dealing with a stomach bacterial infection for the last couple years that was causing me a lot of issues. I felt sick a good portion of the last two years and this was probably the culprit. After finally getting the tests, we were able to attack it with antibiotics. In January I’ll get some additional tests to make sure it was fully eradicated. I’m already feeling a ton better, so I’m hopeful.
I’ve also closed my exercise rings on my Apple Watch every day this year. That is definitely having a positive impact as well. Even on my sickest days I made sure to at least shuffle along on the treadmill for 30 minutes. I’m feeling a lot better today than I have in a long time. And that’s good, because I want to be around a long time.
In other news, we passed a milestone in September. We marked 20 years of this blog. For the last 20 years, I have documented my life, shared technology, bitched about the state of the world, opined about music, gushed over gadgets and fell in love, and then out of of love, with social media. This blog was always written for me, to document what was going on in my life and to share it with the world. At times there were an unfathomable amount of people reading, and nowadays, maybe only a few. I hope I have enlightened, entertained, provoked or helped everyone reading this in some way. No matter whether we were close, or we never met, I hope this place has given you something.
Thanks for sticking around, and I don’t just mean the blog. I’m really glad you have. Keep fucking going.
2022 Music Top Albums
The Year of Angry, Defiant and Depressing Music
2022 was a rough year, and with it I listened to a lot of angry and rather
depressing music. That said, music has always been my emotional outlet, and these albums helped me “keep fucking going” in 2022. Metalcore factored in heavily, with insanely good albums from I Prevail, Architects, Silverstein, Sleeping with Sirens and Motionless in White. I still listened to some great pop punk with Sueco, Papa Roach, Stand Atlantic, Magnolia Park and State Champs. Mix in some emo and whatever Jeris Johnson is and that rounded out the majority of my listening.
Avril Lavigne had a resurgence with a really fantastic pop punk album and Demi Lovato moved away from pop to arguably one of the best pop punk albums of the year as well. Polyphia are a prog rock group who have some of the most intricate guitar work I’ve ever heard and they were so vibey for upbeat background music for working and writing.
Dermot Kennedy and Tyrone Wells had great adult alternative albums, Machine Gun Kelly had another punk album and I really liked about half the album. Then Jack White blew me away with Fear of the Dawn which I can only describe as “sounds like Jack White” as he’s pretty much a genre unto himself. Hell even 80’s glam metal band Skid Row got a new singer and put out an excellent album of rock (if still a bit dated.)
Music is my lifeline, and I now have my perfect listening environment in my home theater. I’ve spent countless hours sitting in the Dolby Atmos sweet spot just letting the music wash over me. Some of these albums had such good multi-channel mixes too. I’m experiencing this music on a whole new level. I’ve finally reached a childhood goal. That was definitely a positive for the year.
Here’s to as much good music in 2023, and maybe a little more uplifting. If you want to check out the best songs from my favorite new releases of the year, you can check it out here on Apple Music.
- I Prevail – True Power
- Architects – The Classic Symptoms of a Broken Spirit
- Sueco – It Was Fun While it Lasted
- Sleeping With Sirens – Complete Collapse
- Silverstein – Misery Made Me
- Jack White – Fear of the Dawn
- Papa Roach – Ego Trip
- The Wonder Years – The Hum Goes On Forever
- Jeris Johnson – I wan BLOOD/I want love
- Polyphia – Remember That You Will Die
- Magnolia Park – Heart Eater EP
- State Champs – Kings of the New Age
- Stand Atlantic – f.e.a.r.
- Palaye Royale – Fever Dream
- Motionless in White – Scoring The End of the World
- Avril Lavigne – Love Sux
Honorable Mention: Demi Lovato, Dermot Kennedy, Electric Callboy, Tyrone Wells, Machine Gun Kelly
COVID Diaries Pt. 29
The End?
The end of what you may ask? Well, I guess I will say it is the end of this series at least. No one in the States is paying ANY attention to COVID at all. Other than the immunocompromised that is.
Shortly after my last post, the CDC posted new guidelines that basically amounted to “Eh, we give up.” So, people basically did. You would be hard pressed to see many precautions any longer. Everything has basically eased back into what normal seems like. Which means people are catching and passing around COVID all the time, but if you aren’t testing, you might not even know. My mom had it for a second time during this period, and it was nothing more than a mild cold this time around.
At least one positive is the release of the Omicron focused booster shots. They are out now, which should hopefully help combat the most common variants that are still circulating. COVID isn’t over, but I’m sure it will end up becoming more of a yearly flu situation. As such, this morning I got my updated booster AND my flu shot. So hopefully I’m well protected for the fall.
Let’s see, what else happened since June? The war in the Ukraine is still raging on, Boris Johnson resigned and the Queen died in the UK, R. Kelly was sentenced to prison for the rest of his life, there was another mass shooting in Highland Park, IL, James Caan, Ivana Trump, Anne Heche and Oliva Newton John all died. Mar-a-Lago got raided due to improper storage and handling of classified documents, a childhood friend committed suicide, the NFL season began and a neighbor destroyed a privacy wall of trees on over 300 feet of my property. So yeah, it’s been a hectic couple of months, and most of the news kinda sucked.
On the good side, Biden got some legislation through that should help the economy and the middle class. He also is forgiving some student load debt, so that’s huge for a lot of people as well. Things are trending well going into the mid-terms. We’ll see if it makes any difference.
I’ve also been trying to buy a car for the last several months, and it has been a nightmare. I want a hybrid as my last two cars were also hybrids. I like being less reliant on gas and having the emissions better for the environment as well. The problem is, due to sky high gas prices, EVERYONE wants hybrids. I haven’t been able to see the model I want in person because they are all sold before they ever hit a dealer’s lot. I’ve had my name on waiting lists at several places, and even went to buy one, until they showed me the bill with a 20 percent markup of the price due to inventory scarcity. They also added another $1200 in “protective coating”. They added $7200 to the cost of the car. I, not so nicely, told them what they could do with their offer.
So, that is ongoing. I’m finally supposed to have a vehicle coming in October. I won’t believe it until I’m sitting behind the wheel though. Fingers crossed.
Lastly, this is a special day for the blog, as it is our 19th anniversary of posting here. Pretty wild that I’ve been writing down my thoughts on the interwebz for so long. I want to at least hit the twenty-year mark before I hang this up though, so you’ll have to hear from me a tad bit longer. Thanks for being a part of the ride.